Loss doesn’t follow a timeline.
Grief takes away your sense of control. Grief-informed care doesn’t try to hand you a timeline or five tidy stages — it centers your pace, your voice, and what this loss actually means to you.
We honor the depth and complexity grief can carry. The sadness, anger, relief, guilt, numbness, and disorientation tangled up inside it can feel contradictory, even shameful to admit. Let’s make room for all of it — and work toward steadiness, meaning, and a way to carry what you’ve lost.
Loss isn’t only death. We create space for the endings that don’t come with a funeral or a casserole on the doorstep — estrangement, divorce, a friendship that faded, a diagnosis that changed everything, the person someone used to be before illness or addiction took hold, the future you’d planned for and won’t get to have.
You may have noticed:
- You feel grief that isn’t recognized by the people around you — for a loss others don’t see as “real enough” to grieve
- You’re still functioning on the outside while feeling like something in you has stopped
- You feel relief alongside your grief, and it makes you feel like a terrible person
- You’re angry — at the person you lost, at your higher power, at doctors, at yourself, at everyone who still gets to complain about small things
- You can’t cry, and you don’t know if that means something is wrong with you
- You’re still grieving someone who is still alive — a parent with dementia, an estranged family member, a person changed by addiction
- People have started expecting you to be “over it” on a timeline that has nothing to do with how you actually feel
- You feel guilty for moving forward, like healing is a betrayal of what — or who — you lost
These aren’t signs that you’re grieving wrong. They’re what grief actually looks like when it doesn’t get to follow a script.
What we work with
- Grief after the death of a loved one: sudden or anticipated, recent or long carried
- Disenfranchised grief: losses that don’t get social recognition: an ex-partner, a pet, a miscarriage, a friendship
- Ambiguous loss: grieving someone who is still physically present but changed, through dementia, addiction, or estrangement
- Divorce and relationship endings
- Anticipatory grief: grieving in advance of a loss you can see coming
- Complicated or prolonged grief: when grief doesn’t ease with time and interferes with daily life
- Grief tangled with other losses: a job, an identity, a stage of life, a future you’d planned on
- Grief that surfaces in parenting: carrying your own loss while trying to show up for your kids
FAQs
Counseling approach
Person-centered, strengths-based, attachment aware, and trauma-informed. Culturally sensitive, anti-racist, and LGBTQ+ friendly. Process and insight-driven, while remaining practical and actionable. Sessions are conversational and educational in nature, creating space for reflection, understanding, and growth.
Investment
Private pay with insurance support in the form of superbills for out-of-network reimbursement. Payment options available. This gives the client the freedom to let their healing journey unfold at it’s own pace, without the restrictions often required by insurance companies.
Care philosophy
You deserve to feel seen, heard, and respected. We honor your lived experiences and approach our work together as a collaborative, insight-driven process—one that fosters deeper understanding and meaningful, sustainable change.
How do I get started?
Call/text at 832.558.1616, schedule online, or email at leahs@roottorisecw.com. We offer a free 15-20 minute phone consultation to connect, hear what you’re looking for, and explore how we can support you.
